After
Delivery - Postnatal - The Puerpirium
Coping
with baby
After the excitement of being pregnant, after the ecstasy and anxiety
of labour and delivery, after the indescribable joy of seeing your own
child alive in your arms, you realize that you have a living human who
you are responsible for, an awesome challenge. There are major changes
in lifestyle as you learn to adapt to your new situation. Both parents
will be shocked by the extent to which their life is altered, an even
greater challenge for the single parent. It is important to recognize
the strain and keep talking to each other about the change in your life,
especially in the first few months of the baby's life. Within months
everyone adapts and life becomes more enjoyable.
Postnatal
depression
About three days after birth, when the hormone levels from pregnancy
rapidly return to their normal pre-pregnancy values, the new mother
may feel weepy for no particular reason. This is called 'The Blues'
and usually only lasts a day or two.
Many
women feel mildly depressed in the first few months after birth, reflecting
the great strain brought about by becoming a mother. For some women
many repressed issues surrounding their own personality and childhood
experiences can no longer be hidden away and must be addressed. (continued
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